there was a man who was asked to try a suit by a salesgirl, and after trying it, he mentioned that the left pants leg was too short, and the salesgirl asked him to bend his knee. he said the left buttock was higher than the right, and the girl asked him to qiao4 his buttock.in the end, the man bought the suit and wore it out one day. two old ladies saw it, and commented:"poor man, to be born with such deformities, but the suit does look good"

some of us change ourselves to fit into the people around us, some of the changes can be positive, such as curbing our tempers. others can cause us to lose ourselves. but why do that? aren't u supposed to learn to be happy with wad u have n hu u r?

i like tanya n stefanie's "yuan dian" and shi kang zhong n shin's "ai zhong fei xing". send mi if u haf! hahaha

read ql's blog, set me thinking.. hmm..